Are you ready for your relationship to be better, and sick of the same old problems?
It can be so painful when there isn't much understanding or comfort left in your relationship. Anger can come from nowhere, and silences can be overwhelming. Simple questions lead to arguments, then to a frightening loneliness. Your partner feels so far away.
Is this how it feels for you?
Part of you thinks that your problems are so difficult that you will never work them out. Talking with friends, reading books, and even going to counseling hasn't been able to help. Work, kids, and bills all get in the way. You seem to get trapped in the same argument patterns over and over.
There is hope!
What I know is that just as things can spiral down, so they can spiral back up. Good people get into unhelpful and reactive patterns, and good people can break those patterns to again understand and empathize with each other. And good people now standing beside each other in partnership, working together, can bring back hope and contentment.
I can help.
I am one of only a very few therapists in Vermont trained in Emotion-Focused Therapy for Couples. Using this process helps over 90% of couples, and can help you identify and break free from the destructive dance. Soon you will be able to talk and listen so that you both feel deeply understood. As underlying emotions emerge, you will see your partner in a very different light. You can regain the comfort, closeness, soothing, and safety that we call love.
Let's get started.
If you and your partner are ready to regain the lost feelings, and connect more deeply and securely than ever before, call me now at 802-872-7121, or e-mail to firstname.lastname@example.org. Let's meet, talk, and see if this is the right place to begin to heal your relationship.